I'm obviously not any degree conquered relational therapist; but, I think I have had enough people contact me that I can pronounce some sort of accurate conclusion(s) from them:1) Boys never grow up. Meaning: they think will their dick's 97% of them time. If you do realize you love one of these amazingly, hot weirdos, ask them a lot of questions between the time you realize this and the time before you cut it off, or before you cut it off with all others...
2) Fall in love with yourself first. Meaning: I've been saying this since like 2009 but now that I'm living in New York it happen to be relevant. What I'm saying that this quote means is that if you have a solid foundation with who you are as one, you will be able to build a solid beginning with someone new that you meet because neither of you will be obessing over relying on one another (that is if he has is own stable job; which I figure he would seeing that you're a boss bithch..).
3) There's no such thing as 'play hard to get.' Meaning: whoever said that, it was way too long ago. Playing hard to get never ends in anything, unless you are slowly changing the rules of 'Play Hard To Get,' which is a crazy. Crazy good; but still crazy. What I want to say is that, yes, of course, playing hard to get is sexy and intruiging, but it doesn't last and when you are looking for someone to last, this isn't the way to go.
4) Don't sleep with him. Meaning: If you want to see him again and if you want him to respect you: Do. Not. Sleep. With. Him. Want more advice on this? Email: queenpin013@gmail.com.
5) Don't text him: Meaning: If a guy wants to get ahold of you or wants to see you by any means, he will absolutely make it happen. Don't go out of your way to make it happen. Don't lose sleep, schooling, grading, study time, shopping time, sleep time (did I already say that?) over a DUDE. That is literally disgusting. If that fulfills you - and at one point it does for all of us - but if you read this and still act the same, you are not living by your full potential. Let the man who loves you come to you. And you go to him. Please. PLEASE let it be mutual. I have no idea why it is not.
If he keeps coming. And you keep going. Trust. (Oh, and email me).